tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30317596927750960762024-02-20T18:03:04.428-08:00Love IssuesShashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-78149749428498800392011-10-06T03:09:00.001-07:002011-10-06T03:09:10.127-07:00PornStar: a poem<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
</div><h2><a href="http://dailyjag.com/literature/pornstar/515/">“PornStar” : A Poem </a> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#444444;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;"><a href="http://dailyjag.com/feed/"><img src="http://cdn.webeasy.in/wp-content/themes/Newstimes%20Package/newstimes/images/subscribe_rss.png" alt="" border="0" /></a></span></h2><div><div id="metabox"><div>TAGS<br />
<div><a href="http://dailyjag.com/tag/girl/" rel="tag">Girl</a><a href="http://dailyjag.com/tag/human/" rel="tag">Human</a><a href="http://dailyjag.com/tag/porn/" rel="tag">Porn</a><a href="http://dailyjag.com/tag/sex/" rel="tag">Sex</a></div></div></div><div id="attachment_517"><a href="http://cdn.webeasy.in/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/images.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="images" src="http://cdn.webeasy.in/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/images.jpg" alt="PornStar : A Poem" width="121" height="121" /></a>PornStar : A Poem<br />
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</div>A different perspective to the <a title="world" href="http://dailyjag.com/category/world/">world</a> of PornStar ( a person who appears in pornographic films ).<br />
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The <a title="poem" href="http://dailyjag.com/category/literature/poem/">poem</a> show’s the artistic perception of the poet and not at all means to offend anyone in any manner.<br />
<blockquote>The way you shake your ass,<br />
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The way u go up on that pole.<br />
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The clothes you shed up there,<br />
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For all these fuckin assholes.</blockquote></div><br />
read more at <a href="http://dailyjag.com"> dailyjag </a>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-80371499547696267592009-07-29T08:37:00.000-07:002009-07-29T08:38:20.497-07:00How to Tell Her You Love Her<div class="Heading3a">Instructions</div> <div class="thingsYouNeed"> <h4 class="Heading4a">Things You'll Need:</h4> <ul class="BulletList"><li> <span>Flowers</span> </li><li> <span>Romantic Gifts</span> </li></ul> </div> <ol id="intelliTxt"><li> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>1</span></div> <p>Think about when and where you want to tell her. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell her at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date.</p> </li><li> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>2</span></div> <p>Set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic gift.</p> </li><li> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>3</span></div> <p>Look at her directly, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere.</p> </li><li> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>4</span></div> <p>Tell her how you feel being with her, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her.</p> </li><li> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>5</span></div> <p>Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you."</p> </li></ol>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-91340796017081570412009-07-26T11:32:00.000-07:002009-07-26T11:32:00.439-07:00Is What I'm Feeling Infatuation or Love?There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.<br /><br />When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner in infatuation” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And most infatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.<br /><br />Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.<br /><br />When infatuated we experience a surge of dopamine that rushes through the brain causing us to feel good. Norepinephrine flows through the brain stimulating production of adrenaline (pounding heart). Phenylethalimine (found in chocolate) creates a feeling of bliss. Irrational romantic sentiments may be caused by oxytocin, a primary sexual arousal hormone that signals orgasm and feelings of emotional attachment. Together these chemicals sometimes override the brain activity that governs logic.<br /><br />The body can build up tolerances to these chemicals so it takes more of the substance to get that special feeling of infatuation. People who jump from relationship to relationship may be craving the intoxicating effects of these substances and may be “infatuation junkies”.<br /><br />When the chemical flood dries up, the relationship either moves into a loving romantic one or there is disillusionment, and the relationship ends.Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-49129721325490773932009-07-26T09:41:00.002-07:002009-07-26T09:52:50.153-07:00Why do we love and hate women at the same time ?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: 2; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">You’ve heard the old saying, “Women: you can’t live with them; you can’t live without them” or the even more popular version, “Women: you can’t live with them; you can’t shoot them”.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Either way you look at it women drive men crazy (in a negative way) and women drive men<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">crazy</em><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>(in a positive way).</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">What is it about women that men hate and what still makes men keep coming back for more?</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">What Men Hate About Women</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5138" title="phone" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/phone.jpg" alt="phone Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">1. They talk too much.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Have you ever heard a woman talk on the phone? Jeez-us, you’ll hear her jabber and jabber for a long period of time without even taking a breath. Then there will be dead silence for a long time. This isn’t because she’s done talking. In fact, that’ll<em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>never</em>happen.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Instead, it’s because she’s giving her<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">friend<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em>a chance to jabber and jabber without taking a breath. The bad thing is that they talk the same way to men, and expect us to listen and then respond! What they don’t realize is that men don’t have that long of an attention span for anything except sports, food, and sex.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5139" title="shopping" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/shopping.jpg" alt="shopping Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">2. They spend too much money.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">It’s no secret that women love to shop. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if women were the ones that invented the jewelry store<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">and</em><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>the mall. If they want to spend their own money on petty things such as designer clothes, jewelry, and makeup, then men have no problem with it. The problem comes in when they go shopping with their man’s money.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5140" title="bitching" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/bitching.jpg" alt="bitching Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">3. They nag and bitch a lot.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">If you’re a single guy, then you may not have encountered this yet. A lot of women are really sneaky about it. She’ll be very sweet and seem as if she’s the perfect match for you. So, you decide to marry her, then wham! All of a sudden this monstrous beast comes out in her like you’ve never seen. She wants to know why she always has to beg you to take out the trash and why she never gets any help with the housework.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">She tells you what a loser you are because you didn’t call to tell her you were going to the bar after work and she makes it a federal case when you want to hang out with your friends. As she’s calling you a loser and telling you all the things that you do wrong, she then says that<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">she</em><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>feels unappreciated. What happened to that sweet little angel you were with prior to getting married?</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5141" title="crying" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/crying.jpg" alt="crying Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">4. They have mood swings, show their emotions for everyone to see, and cry often.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Women can have some wicked mood swings, especially at particular times of the month, so they<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">claim</em>. Some women are moody<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">all<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em>the time. One minute they can be screaming at you for something you did and the next minute they can be crying because they’re sorry they treated you like that and they’ll tell you how much they love you.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">What ever happened to consistency? This can happen so fast that a lot of times that it has men’s heads spinning. Also, men are taught from an early age not to show too much in the way of emotions. Getting too emotional is weak. Apparently no one ever told women this. In fact, someone must have told women that they should show more emotions to make up for what their men don’t show.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5142" title="mom" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/mom.jpg" alt="mom Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">5. They have mothers.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Again, if you’re a single guy, you may not yet know what I’m talking about. However, once you’re married, you get introduced to a force more evil than your wife. It’s called the mother-in-law. A mother-in-law doesn’t have bouts of being sweet and she will never tell you how much she loves you or appreciates you.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">She’s just nasty and bitchy all the time. You’ll be convinced that she has a vendetta against you, especially since every time you see her, she gives you the “I’m going to kill you in your sleep” look.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">What Men Love About Women</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5143" title="sex" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/sex.jpg" alt="sex Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">1. They satisfy a man’s sexual needs.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">While it may be true that not all women will satisfy every sexual<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">desire</em><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>men have, they will satisfy a man’s<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: italic; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">need</em>. A man’s sexual needs are very basic. They just need sex. That’s it. Nothing complex, just plain good old-fashioned sex. Anything else is a bonus. For most men, this is the number one coolest thing about women.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5144" title="cooking" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/cooking.jpg" alt="cooking Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">2. They cook.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Traditionally, women are the ones that do the cooking. Although some women don’t or won’t cook, as a rule women love to cook for their men. You’ve heard the old saying, “A way to man’s heart is through is stomach”. It’s true - well, mostly.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5145" title="cleaning" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/cleaning.jpg" alt="cleaning Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">3. They clean the house.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Apparently women can see dirt before men because they seem to constantly be cleaning. They may bitch a bit when they do it, but if you can learn to tune the bitching out, it’s really nice. You don’t have to lift a finger and your house is clean all the time! How great is that? You can be watching Sunday afternoon football and by the time the game is over, your house is clean. Now, that’s magical.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5146" title="sexy" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/sexy.jpg" alt="sexy Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">4. Men love the way women look.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Men may often complain that women spend too much money. Of course, it’s true. However, once in a while, when they go shopping, they will purchase some incredibly hot lingerie, a sexy bikini, or a tight little outfit that shows off all of her curves in all the right places. The spending money part still sucks, but showing it off is a great benefit.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" align="center"><span style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: none; color: rgb(0, 102, 203);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5147" title="worship" src="http://amog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/worship.jpg" alt="worship Why Do We Love Women and Hate Them At the Same Time?" style="border-style: none; border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;" width="321" height="421" /></span></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: bold; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">5. They make men feel important.</strong></p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">All you have to do is show a woman a little respect and buy her flowers every once in a while and in return, she will think that you are the most amazing person in the world. When she’s not bitching, she’ll show you just how much she appreciates you and will be very loyal. You may perceive this as being clingy, and often times women are, but the fact that she worships you is pretty cool.</p><p style="border-width: 0px; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 0px; outline-width: 0px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;">Most younger men they feel that the bad outweighs the good and that’s why they don’t get married right away. As men get older, they start to realize that there’s a lot to be said for having a home cooked meal, a clean house, a sexy woman, feeling important, and having sex on a regular basis. How about you? Does the good outweigh the bad or does the bad outweigh the good?</p></span></span>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-65750833169791328392009-07-26T09:34:00.000-07:002009-07-26T09:40:32.462-07:00Why do we fall in love?<span style="font-size:100%;">"It is better to have loft and lost than to never have loft at all." — Groucho Marx</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: 2; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;font-family:'times new roman';font-size:100%;" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style=";font-family:Verdana;" ><div id="bodyCopy"><p>Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people. So why do people fall in love? Professor Arthur Aron from State University of New York at Stonybrook has been exploring the dynamics of what happens when two people are falling in love:</p></div><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>What motivates people to seek out love?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> Our primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we accomplish this is through our relationships with other people. We have learned in our research that it is important to feel that you have the ability to be an effective person, especially in our relationships.<br /><hr style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" align="left" size="1" width="268" noshade="noshade"><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>How does this theory of self-expansion explain the process of falling in love?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> Usually, we fall in love with a person that we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. This creates a situation where a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration!<br /><hr style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" align="left" size="1" width="268" noshade="noshade"><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>Does it always work this way?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> No, an interesting exception to this occurs if we feel badly about ourselves. The process gets thrown off if we can't believe that another persons finds us attractive — like the Groucho Marx joke where we don't want to belong to a club that would have us for a member. We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves.<br /><hr style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" align="left" size="1" width="268" noshade="noshade"><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>What conditions are best for meeting someone and falling in love?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> When you meet someone under conditions that are highly arousing — a political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, a stimulating performance — a time when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level. This effect is well documented but the explanations for it are very controversial. I tend to believe that we come to associate the arousal of the situation with this person and our own self-expansion.<br /><hr style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" align="left" size="1" width="268" noshade="noshade"><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>When do we fall in love?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> Contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. People only report falling in love quickly about 1/3 to 40 percent of the time. Of course, this varies from culture to culture. Falling in love happens differently between cultures but it does occur in most cultures.<br /><hr style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" align="left" size="1" width="268" noshade="noshade"><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>How does our appearance factor into the equation of falling in love?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> This is interesting; we have found that if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much.<br /><hr style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" align="left" size="1" width="268" noshade="noshade"><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">Q:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><b>How do you explain that?</b><br /><strong class="primeColor" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 204);">A:</strong><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span> We have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.<br /></span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-41260802555690060442009-07-25T11:31:00.000-07:002009-07-25T11:32:20.694-07:00"If you loved me you would....."Unspoken and unacknowledged expectations take a large toll in relationships. In having expectations, you're expecting your partner to be a certain way in order to believe they love and care about you. If you don't get what you expect, you conclude all kinds of negative things about the relationship that may not be true.<br /><br />Useful Questions:<br /><br /> * Do your expectations have to be fulfilled for you to be happy? If so, why?<br /> * Do you expect your partner to conform to your wants? What does it mean when they don't?<br /> * Do you have preset rules in your love relationships? If so, what are they and why?<br /> * Do you find yourself often saying “he should” or “she should”?<br /> * Do you have any “If you loved me you would...[fill in the blank]'s”? If so, what are they?<br /> * Can you think of a time you didn't do what someone wanted you to do? Did you love them, even though you didn't do what they wanted? Could it be the same with your partner?<br /> * Do you use another’s words and actions as “evidence or proof” that they love you?. If your partner does that thing or activity you want, then do they love you? If they don't, is that a sign they don't love you or care? If yes, why?<br /> * Understand everyone has different wants, desires, and beliefs about what it means to be loving.<br /> * Be Honest<br /> * Examine what expectations you DO have, then openly discuss them with your partner. Find out what theirs are.Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-65191294167479629262009-07-25T11:29:00.000-07:002009-07-25T11:30:45.470-07:00"We don't have anything in common anymore."<p>You love each other and that's why you got together in the first place, but you don't really seem to have much in common anymore. You’re into philosophy and art. They're into sports. You like books and going for walks, and she always wants to go sailing. But you tell yourself that marriage is a sacrifice. A give and take. You’ve been told you should put aside your own interests to make the relationship work. You have to compromise, right? But when you give up what you love for the sake of the relationship, you end up resenting the person and conclude you don't have anything in common. </p> <p>If you had these differences when you fell in love, chances are it's not about having nothing in common, but not having the connection and intimacy you once had.</p> <p><span style="color:#024388;"><b>Useful Questions:</b></span> </p><ul type="square"><li>Has the amount of one-on-one time changed since you first met?</li><li>Do you still share everything with your partner like you use to?</li><li>What would happen if you did what you wanted, and they did what they wanted?</li><li>How much time do you have to spend with your lover to feel you have a successful relationship? How did you arrive at that amount? What would it mean if you had separate interests?</li><li>Do you see yourself and your partner as two separate people who choose to be together or do you feel some type of obligation?</li><li>Do you believe “Love means to sacrifice.”? If so, why?</li></ul>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-69942257208770094222009-07-25T11:28:00.000-07:002009-07-25T11:29:38.962-07:00"You don't love me like I love you"Problems can creep in when we start to have thoughts of “do I love him more than he loves me?” We start examining all the things we do for our lover. All the ways we express our love and how much time and energy we’re putting into the relationship. Then we try to figure out if our lover is giving an <i>equal</i> amount back. If we perceive a discrepancy in that balance sheet, we start to back away from the relationship. We don't want to love more than they love. We become fearful that if we love them more than they love us, we might be played for a fool. <p><span style="color:#024388;"><b>Useful Questions:</b></span> </p><ul type="square"><li>Focus on how you feel when YOU are loving. Does loving someone feel good regardless if it’s returned? Is your loving someone conditional on them loving you back? If so, why?</li><li>Do you feel loved when your partner isn’t around? If not, why not? Do you accept yourself, appreciate your qualities?</li><li>Are you doing things for your lover that you really don't want to do, but feel you need to, to keep their love? Are you doing things for them, expecting something in return? What are you expecting? And have you told them what that is?</li><li>Have you talked to your partner about what things cause you to feel loved? (Don’t get caught up in “if they loved me, they’d know”, cause they don’t.)</li></ul>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-49891858401644069902009-07-25T00:47:00.001-07:002009-07-25T00:47:58.074-07:00What i've learned about womesA lot of guys ask me to “sum up” what I’ve learned about women and dating.<br /><br />They want a “short course” in how to attract and meet women... and how to do it now.<br /><br />Here are three of the most important “keys” I’ve learned about women and attraction... summarized for you.<br /><br /> 1. Attraction isn’t a “conscious” process at all, and if you don’t understand how it works, you could spend your whole life doing the wrong things and getting bad results.<br /> 2. Most of the things that guys are doing to “pursue” and “seduce” women are actually working against them. I always shake my head when I think about how I behaved before I understood how attraction worked.<br /> 3. Women read into everything. They don’t take things at face value... they’re always interpreting. When I wrote Double Your Dating, I knew that women basically used a sort of “code” to communicate. But over the past year or two it’s become very obvious to me that this idea has more significance than I originally thought.<br /><br />I actually believe that most guys have the natural ability to communicate with attractive women in a way that makes them feel attraction... but the problem is that they’ve just never “cultivated” that natural ability... and instead culture, their parents, language, and all kinds of other things have hidden and stunted the development of this talent.<br /><br />Another thing I’ve learned is that I learn a lot by teaching. I really have enjoyed writing all of these newsletters, interacting with all of my subscribers, teaching seminars in L.A. and New York, doing the teleconference trainings... and working on all the other good stuff that’s going to come out in the next few months.<br /><br />If you’re good with women, I recommend that you find a guy who isn’t that good, and help him.<br /><br />I can almost guarantee that you will learn so much more by teaching than you can by doing alone.<br /><br />And it’s also a very gratifying experience to help other guys learn something that is so important to them.<br /><br />Of course, the thing I’m most proud of is my Advanced Dating Techniques program that I released.<br /><br />I have gotten so many letters from guys who are using that program to transform their lives... in more areas than just women and dating.<br /><br />It took a long time to plan, record, edit, design, and put together... but it was worth it.<br /><br />If you’ve been considering investing in it, then I really invite you to do so. I’ve mentioned before that I offer a 100% money-back guarantee, and I mean it. It’s really my intention that if you don’t get a minimum of ten times the value out of this program that you just send it back.<br /><br />If you haven’t read Double Your Dating yet, then go download a copy for yourself. It’s the best introduction to women and dating available, and it will help you get more success and results starting tonight.Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-72652939436183153732009-07-25T00:43:00.000-07:002009-07-25T00:46:17.681-07:00Best, funny and cute pick up lines !!Pick up lines has long been used as the easiest and quickest way to impress a girl. And if not impress it make you look cool in front of the girl. So to help you all i am posting some great pick up lines that you might want to try.<br /><br /><br />Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!<br /><br />Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?<br /><br />Baicarumba...are those real?<br /><br />Be unique and different, just say yes.<br /><br />Can I flirt with you?<br /><br />Damn girl, you have more curves than a race track.<br /><br />Do you know karate? Cos damn it honey, your body is really kickin.<br /><br />Excuse me. I'm from the FBI, the Fine Body Investigators, and I'm going to have to ask you to assume the position.<br /><br />Gee, that's a nice set of legs, what time do they open?<br /><br /><br />Honey, I'm new in this town - dya think I could have directions to your house.<br /><br />I hope you know CPR, cos you take my breath away!<br /><br />I've got the ship, you've got the harbor ... what say we tie up for the night?<br /><br />I've just moved you to the top of my 'to do' list.<br /><br />If you don't wanna have kids with me, then why don't we just practice?<br /><br />Screw me if I am wrong, but haven't we met before?<br /><br />That outfit would look great in a crumpled heap next to my bed.<br /><br />Were you arrested earlier? It's gotta be illegal to look that good. <br /><br />I may not be Fred Flintstone but I can sure make your bed rock!<br /><br />Is your dad a thief or something? Because someone stole the stars and put them into your eyes!<br /><br />I’ve heard sex is a killer. Want to die happy?<br /><br />Excuse me, but I’m new in town, can I have directions to your place?<br /><br />Can I buy you a drink - or would you just prefer the five bucks?<br /><br />I’m a thief, and I’m here to steal your heart.<br /><br />I wish I were a tear so i could start in your eyes, live on your face, and die on your lips.<br /><br />If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.<br /><br />Am I cute enough yet? Or do you need more to drink?<br /><br />You must be the reason for global warming because you’re hot.<br /><br />You know what would look great on you? Me.<br /><br />Can I read your T shirt in brail?<br /><br />Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.<br /><br />You know what? Your eyes are the same color as my Porsche.<br /><br />I think I need to call heaven because they’ve lost one of their angels.<br /><br />Is your name Gillette? Because you’re the best a man can get!<br /><br />Do you believe in the hereafter? Well, then I guess you know what I’m here after.<br /><br />Do you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants.<br /><br />The body is made up of 90% water and I’m thirsty.<br /><br />Baby you must be tired because you’ve been running through my mind all night!<br /><br />Are you an overdue book? Because you’ve got FINE written all over you!<br /><br />How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice- can I get your number?<br /><br />I have Skittles in my mouth, wanna taste the rainbow?<br /><br />That’s a nice shirt. Can I talk you out of it?<br /><br />You know, winning the lottery doesn’t mean much when you have a weak heart.<br /><br />If I had a garden I’d put your tulips and my tulips together.<br /><br />What has 142 teeth and holds back the incredible hulk? My zipper.<br /><br />If you were a new sandwich at Mcdonalds, you’de be called McGorgeous.<br /><br />All those curves! And me with no brakes!<br /><br />Can I even get a fake number?<br /><br />You’ll do.<br /><br />And more funny pick up lines:<br /><br />Excuse me for interrupting and I’m not trying to make a pass, but you must be leaving the country if you’re packing that much ass.<br /><br />You might as well sleep with me because I’m going to tell everyone we did anyway!<br /><br />Your mom was pretty good, so i figured you would be too.<br /><br />I would say God bless you but it looks like he already did.<br /><br />It’s a good thing I have my library card, because I’m checking you out.<br />Oh, sorry, I’m reserved for someone else.<br /><br />Damn, I’m glad I’m not blind!<br /><br />If I followed you home, would you keep me?<br /><br />If I told you you had a gorgeous body, would you hold it against me?<br /><br />You look like my second wife! And I’ve only been married once!<br /><br />Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?<br /><br />Do you believe in love at first site, or should I walk past you again?<br /><br />If you were Sprite, I’d obey my thirst!<br /><br />Excuse me can I borrow a quarter, it is an emergency. My mom told me to giver her a call the first time I fell in love.<br /><br />I lost my number, can I have yours?<br /><br />Let’s make like fabric softner and snuggle<br /><br />Do you like bananas or blueberries? Why? I wanna know what kind of pancackes to make in the morning.<br /><br />Hey baby. Roses are red, violets are blue. I’m not a poet, but damn girl, you’re hot!<br /><br />Hi there. Inheriting 50 million dollars doesn’t mean much when you have a weak heart.Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-67475170888550431062009-07-24T10:58:00.001-07:002009-07-24T10:58:49.699-07:00How to propose a girl ?<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZqIVYqRuI1M&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZqIVYqRuI1M&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-57541307810640602802009-07-24T10:57:00.000-07:002009-07-24T10:58:07.761-07:00How to propose a girl ?A girl is nature's most wonderful creation. She can love like there is no tomorrow and hate like you wish you would die. She can be a protector, a healer a creator and a destroyer. For proposing a girl, certain things have to be kept in mind. It is a bit tricky but not impossible. We bring you some ideas for proposal to a girl. Following tips shall give you ideas of how to propose a girl.<br /><br /> * Do your homework. Get to know your girl well, before you pop the question. Get to know her interests, her dislikes, and her general nature that will help you plan your proposal in a better way. If she is shy and an introvert, propose when you two are alone. If she is sporty and loves adventure, then take her for rock climbing and propose when you reach the top.<br /> * All girls love flowers. So get a huge bouquet of roses and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Tell her you would like to spend the rest of your life with her or alone. Be ready to be smothered by a genuinely happy woman's hug!<br /> * Appreciate her for what she is. Tell her "you look beautiful" when she does not have any make up on. Tell her she looks amazing when she is having a bad day and mean it. She will love you for it and will readily agree when you propose. Just don't overdo it, as it may look fake.<br /> * Girls love to be pampered so when you intend to propose, make sure you are chivalrous enough to make her feel special and at the same time not look vulnerable. Women want a strong man, not a wimp.<br /> * Don't force her to say yes. The worst you can do is to push her around and threaten her dignity. Tell her to take her time and that you shall wait. Be a gentleman and respect her. Incase she doesn't want a relationship, she will let you know of it then and there.Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-84311356414229269242009-07-24T10:56:00.001-07:002009-07-24T10:56:53.929-07:00When should you dump your lying man?<p>Is it making you think,”I gotta get married really quick, but is it ok? ‘cuz he lies like a dog!”.</p> <p>Dump this ass. Anyone would expect honesty in a relationship This person can be great in all kinds of ways, but if this person cannot be honest with you and if your trying to make a life time commitment with him, then that seems like a really bad idea!</p> <p>Honesty is a two-way street. Most people lie when they don’t feel safe telling you the truth. It may be due to childhood issues or it maybe because of you, if you do jump down his throat everytime he tells you something that you don’t want to hear. You might be creating an environment where he can’t be honest with you.</p> <p>But, if your even thinking about marrying this guy, as honesty is critical in a relationship, then go to pre-marital couples counseling. But if he keeps lying to you, then do not marry him!</p>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-85706008639807986692009-07-24T10:55:00.000-07:002009-07-24T10:56:21.278-07:00Should you dump your cheating partner?<p>Well this question is the most sorted out question by all those who are into a relationship. Well, you need to consider a lot of things before you actually make the big decision. Did he/she get busted? or did they actually confess to you saying,” You know what, I have done something wrong in my life and I want you to forgive me now”. It depends on which category you partner comes under.</p> <p>If they got busted and if they are not wiling to apologize for it and happen to carry on with being a dumb ass, then its time to pack your bags and say bye-bye. There is a very good probability that they might never stop cheating ever. But instead if your partner is all teary faced about the issue, then its time to kiss their cheeks and say ” I love you and I forgive you and I trust you that it won’t happen again!”</p>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3031759692775096076.post-68209104148870321512009-07-24T10:37:00.000-07:002009-07-24T10:40:29.303-07:00Aaaahh! Why Does She Want To Be “Just Friends”?<p>This is an interesting question. Something which you hear all the time! “I don’t want to end up screwing our friendship!”.</p> <p>Under the survey, there could be just 2 possible choices: The first choice being she truly values your friendship more than romance. May be she had a lot of bad experiences end up deciding to keep everyone as friends, including you!</p> <p>But! You might not like to hear this, but unfortunately the second option is… she doesn’t like you that way! And she probably doesn’t want to lose your friendship by saying, ” Hey I don’t like you that way!” and as we being human beings are quite sensitive and our ego flares, and there goes the friendship. Thats the most likely one, unfortunately!</p> <p>The most important thing is, even though she doesn’t want to be your girlfriend, she values you as a part of your life. So keep things running that way and don’t throw away the beautiful friendship. Maybe you could pursue someone else for your romantic relationship and keep her forever.</p>Shashank Agarwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04006177307175914931noreply@blogger.com0